Week 3: What Lies Beneath the Reaction?

softening inner tenstion september 2026

In this Week 3 reflection for Softening Inner Tension, Deb explores what can happen when we become curious about what may be underneath frustration, anger, overwhelm, or another strong reaction.

Drawing from the teachings of Thích Nhất Hạnh, this talk looks at finding steadiness first, then gently looking more deeply. Sometimes beneath the first reaction we may discover hurt, fear, exhaustion, disappointment, an unmet need, or even an assumption about what happened.

This week’s invitation is to slow down enough to ask: What might be underneath this reaction? and What do I actually know, and what am I assuming?

You do not need to have completed the previous weeks to benefit from this reflection. You can begin wherever you are.

Softening Inner Tension: 30 Days of Mindfulness, Compassion & Emotional Ease is available free inside the Skool community.

To join the full Softening Inner Tension experience, come into the free Peaceful Wellness Skool community and look for the Softening Inner Tension: 30 Days classroom.

One day. One reflection. One small practice at a time.

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Once you’re inside, open the Softening Inner Tension: 30 Days classroom. That’s where you’ll find the daily reflections and practices, along with links to live meditation classes and recorded meditations throughout September.

No book is required, and the 30-day practice is free.

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